Coaching

Where are you?

You don’t need to be divorced or wanting to divorce, to work with me-
If as a couple you feel that there are problems within your relationship then I will work with you, together or independently, so that you can both choose where you want your relationship to go – to be saved or to part amicably.

When only one of you feels there are problems-
If you are in the position where only one of you feels that there are damaging problems within the relationship, I will work with you on your own to identify clearly the problem, why you think it’s a problem and what you can do about it.

Wanting to separate to test the water-
I can work with either of you or both to evaluate this option. We can work together to assess the situation on an ongoing basis, keeping the lines of communication open, helping you both to understand where this course of action is leading. Where possible we will work on finding the solutions to enable you to re-unite and have a successful future relationship.

Proceeding with a divorce-
Whether it is you driving the divorce or your spouse, I will offer you my full support to make the whole procedure as smooth, effective, healthy and painless as possible.
By using my help you will gain great emotional support - this is my role, not your lawyer's. Let me use my training and 18 years of experience in Divorce Counselling and Coaching to give you all the practical and emotional support you need.
Also support in dealing with the issue of how to help with your children during this difficult time, what to say and how to deal with the issues that may arise. One or more of your sessions could be used by your children to enable me to help them come to terms and deal with how the divorce affects them.

I work in conjunction with Lawyers and other professionals who also work in such a way that they help to minimise the damage caused by Divorce. This a collaborative process where everything is done to keep communication lines open, to avoid misunderstanding and plan the smoothest route through the divorce, finances and the tide of emotions that accompany divorce.
W orking in this collaborative way ensures that each professional deals with the parts of your divorce that they are best at, so ensuring all your expectations are met and that the time and cost with each is reduced.

Life after Divorce -Divorced and wanting to re-build your life-
Being newly separated or divorced can leave you wondering ‘what now’ and when you have been used to being part of a couple it can be very difficult to adjust to being single again. The whole procedure can leave you lacking in confidence, feeling negative perhaps bitter, not knowing how to move on and re-start your life. We will explore what you want from your new life and how you will go about achieving your goals.